About the Lilac House

I live with my partner Noah (he/him), our baby Cosmo, two dogs, two cats, six chickens and a pet snake!

Teddy Salazar

Owner and Co-Lead Teacher

Thank you so much for your interest in Lilac House Childcare. My name is Teddy Salazar (they/them) and I am the proud owner and one of the lead teachers of the Lilac House. I have been working in education for the past 10 years. I have worked as a classroom assistant, a home-visiting teacher, and a summer coordinator. I have worked with Montessori licensed educators, practitioners of the Reggio Emilia approach, and artists from a variety of backgrounds. I love to learn and want to continue to grow as an educator. I love working with children and with families and truly believe in the quote often attributed to Frederick Douglass which best expresses why good early childcare is so essential: "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." I opened the Lilac House to provide high-quality early childcare and education to families in Chicago, a city that I deeply love, to help build those strong children. 

Khizmet

Outreach and Enrollment Coordinator and Co-Lead Teacher

My name is Khizmet (they/them) and I have been working with families and raising children for over 10 years. I specialize in social emotional learning, and have years of experience with baby-led weaning with infants and toddlers. I have an associate's degree in American Sign Language Interpretation and love to grow children's communication skills using spoken language and ASL. I firmly believe in treating children with respect, and collaborating with parents on compassionate care of their children. Working at Lilac House has been a dream and the program encapsulates all of the things I am passionate about when it comes to childcare and education. 

I have lived in Chicago for almost two years now after living most of my life in the central region of Florida. 

Program Philosophy

The Lilac House is not just a daycare, but a place for learning and growth for your child as well as your family. Children will receive the highest quality education and care that they deserve, taking into consideration their diverse learning needs, ages, and preferences. During the day, our home functions as a childcare center, and in the evenings and on weekends the Lilac House is also a place for community and family gatherings. 


We are community responsive, meaning that families have a say in how our program runs. Each month families will gather for a Reflective Practice Group. Food will be provided and as a community we will review the learning that is happening in the classroom as well as the program itself. Families are invited to propose new ideas for learning experiences and program policies. As a whole, we will decide on how to move forward with the program for the following month. Being community responsive also means making sure that our community is well, and that we are taking good care of each other. We work to offer relevant resources and news to our families on an as needed basis regarding topics such as food access, housing and work opportunities.


Rather than referring to the adults in our community as "Parents" we use the term "Caregiver" as an interchangeable term throughout many of our documents and our website. Not all adults are biologically related to a child, or feel that they associate with terms like Mom, Dad or even Parent. We believe that Caregiver is a term that better fits the variety of roles an adult might have in a child's life. 


Please keep in mind that learning can happen in the classroom, but learning also happens in everyday interactions between a child's primary caregiver, their siblings, and observations they make of the adults that surround them. It is an integral part of the Lilac House that parents are just as curious as their children, and are willing to engage in our community whole-heartedly.

Development and Educational Approach

The Lilac House is inspired by educational philosophies of the schools of Maria Montessori, the Reggio Emilia Approach, and the Anji Play schools of China. I highly encourage families to research these philosophies using the sites below. 

We believe that learning happens through mixed age group play and creative expression. Our goal at the Lilac House is to create children that are strong, independent and well-rounded. We use the Illinois Early Learning Guidelines for children aged birth to 3 years old, and the Illinois Early Learning and Development Standards for children age 3 to kindergarten age. Using the HiMama app, families will receive a developmental report of their child using these standards. Generally the developmental milestones we follow include:


Gross motor skills

Example) Ability to use big muscles. Swinging arms, jumping. 

Fine motor skills

Example) Ability to use small muscles. Holding a utensil.

Social emotional skills

Example) Ability to build relationships and connect with others. 

Cognitive developmental 

Example) Ability to remember and pay attention. 

Language skills

Example) Ability to communicate verbally, through sign language or imagery.

Developmental milestones look different for each child, and are met at different times. In addition to growing these skills for each child in our program, we want our children to have the Characteristics of a Lilac House Learner. A Lilac House Learner


…is resilient 

loves learning 

values safety

trustworthy

connected with nature 

respects all Human life 

At the Lilac House, we meet a child’s developmental milestones and grow their Lilac Learner characteristics through three major educational approaches. They are: 


High Quality Sensory Experiences 


Offering children open-ended materials allows for more creative thinking. Children are invited to play and explore different materials like real clay, dough, ice, sand, water, light and more to ensure that all their senses are being exercised. Children will play with real metal pots and pans in our mud kitchen, use real wood building blocks, and have opportunities to dress up in things like silk and denim - real materials that expose them to a variety of textures and weights while playing. Outdoor play is a major part of our program, and weather permitting we will be outside for 1-2 hours each day so that children can experience as much of the natural elements that our yard can offer. Children will engage in large-scale play outside with natural objects like large wood slices and branches. They will contribute to the creation and maintenance of a working garden, full of smells and textures. 


Guiding and Modeling Social Emotional Skills 


Children learn from observing other adults and children in their lives. We model healthy communication skills and relationships for children in our classroom by being verbally clear about social interactions. Children are never left to figure out a conflict alone. Because of our small child to teacher ratio, children always have an adult nearby to support their interactions with others. Children are given tools and skills to resolve conflicts with each other through things like books, toys and group activities that occur each morning during our Morning Circle. Children are asked how they think a problem should be solved rather than told how it needs to end. The environment is full of materials that represent a variety of people and places to expose them to a variety of ways they can navigate the world. We model consent in many ways, never assuming all children communicate the same or have the same needs and wants. 


Observing and Responding to the Child


Learning through play is how children navigate the world. By observing what children are playing with and how, we can respond to them with new toys and materials to ensure their interests are being respected and their developmental skills and characteristics are being met. Even if children are not verbal through spoken or sign language, they are communicating and telling us what they are learning and what they need to learn through their facial expressions, choice of peers, and pretend play scenarios. We document play experiences through photos, videos and writing down what children are saying or otherwise expressing. Children are invited to share why they made the choice they made and are encouraged to think through their choices. Children’s choices are respected, and children can move around their tables, chairs, toys and play materials and design their shared environment in this way. This supports a child's confidence in themselves, and lets them know they are respected in our classroom. Their opinion and choices matter.

Operating Information

The Lilac House is open year round from 7:30 AM - 5:30 PM Monday through Friday. 

We have two teachers on staff for the 2024 year, but we do allow for undergraduate and graduate students to student-teach and complete their observation hours in our classroom. All teachers in training who visit the program in this way will be required to have an official letter from their college or university, a medical exam and a recent background check on file. 

Credentials

Teddy Salazar Credentials and Professional Development Information: